Hello
First of all, thank you very much. Nilay Hanım and Ender Bey saved me from a nightmare. I have been married for 1.5 years. Vaginismus had fallen over me like a nightmare. At first, I said, It is just first-night fear. But later, I could not do it. I felt very alone. Incomplete, half...
Everything in my life was fine. I had a good spouse, a good job. We were happy. I could achieve everything. Marriage was beautiful too. But when it came to that point, I would freeze. I always had the fear that it would hurt, that I would be in pain. I could not erase this from my mind. We tried a lot. But the result was always disappointment. It turns out it was something very important. A person understands when they cannot do it. Being able to get through that night without problems felt like the first condition of being a woman.
Then I searched on the internet. I came face to face with the diagnosis of vaginismus. I was “vaginismus.” It was a condition I could not tell anyone about, and sometimes I hesitated to admit even to myself. My spouse and I started researching its treatment. We spoke with Ender Bey. He was very gentle, convincing, and reassuring. We got up and went to Istanbul with hope. He spoke with us and explained the treatment process. At that moment, hope was born inside me. The voice in front of me was saying, We will succeed.
The treatment ended in 3 sessions. I did what I was told. Sometimes I fell into hopelessness, sometimes I said, enough, I will succeed now, and in the end I succeeded. Of course, my doctors’ patience played a big role here. This is work that requires patience, hope, and trust. It is essential to get professional help on this issue. First, Ender Bey taught me how to relax with hypnotherapy. Then we did the exercises with Nilay Hanım. Of course, the CDs I listened to also had a big effect.
I succeeded. Every time and every moment they come to my mind, I pray for them. May God be pleased with them. They did us such a great kindness that I cannot describe it. We want to have a baby now. May my Lord let us see that too, inshallah.
Nickname: Burdurlu
