Hello friends,
I know that you are reading these lines right now, feeling hopeless, helpless, and confused about what to do. A few months ago, I was just like you, until I met Dr. Ender Bey and his wife, Dr. Nilay Hanım.
I am 40 years old, I had one marriage before, I married after dating, and I am a university graduate woman. I realized that I had vaginismus after I got married, and my life turned into a nightmare. During my 7-year marriage, I could never have intercourse with my spouse, and I had to get divorced.
I had a problem and I could not solve it. I did not even have the financial means to go to a doctor, because I was reading and hearing that large amounts of money were spent on vaginismus treatment. During my marriage, people constantly asked me about having a baby, and I always said I did not have one. I had even accepted being called infertile behind my back; I was very desperate, I felt like an incomplete woman. Without knowing vaginal orgasm, we were living a sexual life through friction. But it did not last long; my spouse began to complain and kept blaming me. We were unsuccessful in every attempt, and I cried for hours. My marriage came to the point of ending, both because of the poor course of my sexual life and other reasons, and it ended.
After the divorce, I believed that I would never be able to experience sexuality again, and I stayed away from men. But 3 years after the divorce, I married my current spouse. I got married for the second time, but I could not have intercourse with this spouse either. When we got married, my spouse did not know that I had vaginismus; he thought my hesitation on the first night was just shyness, and I avoided intercourse with the excuse that I needed to get used to him. More accurately, I could not… Three years passed, and until last December, I could not have intercourse at all. My spouse started to become unhappy, and we began to argue. My family did not know about the situation, and I was helpless again. My spouse kept telling me that I needed to tell someone in my family, but I could not say it. My days were passing like a nightmare.
At the beginning of December 2013, when my spouse came back from abroad again, we tried again, but it still did not happen. And when my spouse went abroad, he called me and said, If you are really not going to be my wife, even though I love you very much, I will leave you. My world collapsed; I was in a very bad state. I could not share it with anyone. My spouse told me to tell someone in my family or a very close friend and said, Let’s go to a doctor. Be strong, truly be my wife, and he constantly encouraged me. I gathered my strength and said okay, I will solve this problem, and my spouse constantly supported me.
I immediately went on the internet and typed vaginismus treatment. I looked at the clinics that came up, and among them I chose Dr. Ender Vardar’s clinic. I sent them an email explaining my situation. Fifteen minutes after sending the email, my phone rang, and on the other end was Ender Bey with his reassuring voice. He said he was very affected by my email and told me not to worry at all, that he would solve my problem very easily. He spoke so reassuringly that in an instant my self-confidence returned, and it was as if I had already gotten rid of half of this problem. I immediately got an appointment date, and as soon as possible I found myself at Ender Bey’s clinic.
Even my spouse was very surprised and kept asking how they got back so quickly, what kind of clinic it was, and whether it was trustworthy, but I never thought otherwise. From the very beginning, a voice inside me told me that I needed to trust Ender Bey.
And that voice did not mislead me; we went to the clinic together with my spouse. He and his wife made me feel so comfortable that it was as if a burden had been lifted from me. And after that day, my treatment process began.
First, Ender Bey removed the fears I had grown inside me for years from my mind and relaxed my body. He explained how natural and pleasurable sexual intercourse actually is, and that our fears exist only in our minds. He applied hypnosis to me for a few sessions; I felt as light as a bird, and it felt very good.
Then, after these sessions, I started working with Nilay Hanım. While I could not even touch myself and felt shy even next to my spouse, I did not feel shy with Nilay Hanım at all. She gave me confidence, and with her I got to know my own body. Day by day, I saw what I was able to achieve, and as I saw it, I felt more and more excited.
Every day I was progressing a little more. With breathing exercises, I saw and learned how flexible the vagina actually is and how much it can open. At the end of the treatment, I had gotten rid of my problem; it was incredible. I, who had never had sexual intercourse until the age of 40, would now be able to become a mother and experience intercourse like a real woman, and my spouse could not believe what he was seeing.
After everything I achieved, our first union with my spouse was wonderful; I had also reached vaginal orgasm, and neither of us could believe it.
Now we are very happy. I keep saying that I wasted so many years of my life, that it was not a problem that could not be overcome, and wondering why I waited so many years.
Of course, this happy ending is thanks to Dr. Ender Bey and Dr. Nilay Hanım. Their smiling faces, warmth, the peaceful environment in the clinic, and the way they approached me helped me get rid of vaginismus. Now we will have a baby as soon as possible. Every time we have intercourse, my spouse tells me what a wonderful woman I am, and I feel very good.
Thanks to Dr. Ender and Dr. Nilay Hanım, I became a real woman, and I thank them very much.
To get rid of vaginismus, it is enough to trust yourself first and then trust Dr. Ender Bey and Nilay Hanım; believe me, you will feel as if you have been reborn, you are not without a solution and not helpless..
From: sevda ….
Date: March 16, 2014
To: envardar@yahoo.com
Subject: HOLDING ON TO LIFE AGAIN
